As someone with one hoof planted firmly in the pony world, one hoof planted in the furry world, one in the transformation community and one in the anime community, my suggestion is… you do you, girl! Fandoms are inherently cliquish things, and it’s best to cast off their arbitrary lines and just be you. If your identity is the talented pony transformation fetish artist, then that’s a pretty wonderful thing. And those who stick by you, despite your quirks, are the best friends you’ll ever have.
Thanks, Spectragear, that really means a lot to hear. Thank you ^^